Be Who God Wills You to Be

(Series 1, Part 3, Teaching #3)

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Be Who God Wills You To Be

There is a simple but profound maxim that quietly echoes through every page of Scripture, every prompting of grace, and every stirring of the heart—one that sums up God’s entire calling for your life:

“Be who God wills you to be.”

For you are called not to be who the world wills you to be, not to be who your sinful desires will you to be, but to be who God wills you to be. God does not will for you to travel the wide road to destruction and emptiness, but the narrow road that leads to holiness and fulfillment.

God does not will for you to be shaped by the vices of pride, envy, anger, sloth, greed, gluttony, or lust. He wills for you to be formed by the virtues of faith, hope, charity, prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance—that you be strengthened in faith, anchored in hope, and ablaze in charity; that your intellect be illumined by prudence, your will be guided by justice, your heart made bold in fortitude, and your desires rightly ordered by temperance.

But He will not force this upon you. He has given you free will. You must choose it. You must pursue it. You must cooperate with grace and practice it. The question is: will you align your will with His?

It’s been said, “The first end I propose in our daily work is to do the will of God; secondly, to do it in the manner he wills it; and thirdly to do it because it is His will” (St. Elizabeth Ann Seton). To live virtuously is to choose daily—sometimes moment by moment—to rise above vice and walk in the way of God’s will.

The teachings of virtue light the way to—be who God wills you to be—by revealing how to wisely and willfully weave the thread of both the inner beauty and outer brilliance of character. They reveal not only who you are, but who you are becoming—offering both the wisdom to discern what is good and the zeal to pursue it with integrity. They shape the soul like a master sculptor chiseling stone, aiming to form within you a character that reflects the radiance of Christ Himself. It is a kind of spiritual training for the soul—a sanctified shaping of the self—with the goal being not merely to awaken faith in the unbeliever, but to form the believer into a holy warrior.

The call to be who God wills you to be is not passive—it is a daily charge, a summons to transformation. God is not interested in shallow admiration but in deep cooperation with grace. He doesn’t simply want your intellectual belief—He wants your wholehearted becoming.

This process is not without its trials. You will face distractions that cloud your identity, temptations that distort your desires, and seasons where you may forget who you are and whose you are. But the call remains: rise, return, remember—be who God wills you to be.

So when your race comes to an end, you may unerringly say, “I have fought the good fight; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith” (2 Timothy 4:7), and hear the words your soul was made to long for: “Well done, my good and faithful servant” (Matthew 25:23).

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Related Scripture

“...equip you with everything good for doing his will, and may he work in us what is pleasing to him, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen.” — Hebrews 13:21 (NIV)

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” — Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)

“Watch carefully then how you live, not as foolish persons but as wise, making the most of the opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore, do not continue in ignorance, but try to understand what is the will of the Lord.” — Ephesians 5:15-17 (NABRE)

“For you need endurance, so that when you have done the will of God you may receive what was promised.” — Hebrews 10:36 (NRSV)

“Not serving to the eye, as it were pleasing men, but, as the servants of Christ doing the will of God from the heart.” — Ephesians 6:6 (DRC)

“For it is better to suffer for doing good, if that should be God's will, than for doing evil.” — 1 Peter 3:17 (ESV)

“Therefore, since Christ suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same attitude (for whoever suffers in the flesh has broken with sin), so as not to spend what remains of one’s life in the flesh on human desires, but on the will of God.” — 1 Peter 4:1-2 (NABRE)

“But if we obey his word, we are the ones whose love for God has really been made perfect. This is how we can be sure that we are in union with God: if we say that we remain in union with God, we should live just as Jesus Christ did.” — 1 John 2:5-6 (GNTD)

“Surely you know that you are God's temple and that God's Spirit lives in you!” — 1 Corinthians 3:16 (GNTD)

“Instead you ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.’” — James 4:15 (ESV)

“I delight to do your will, O my God; your law is within my heart.” — Psalm 40:8 (ESV)

“I have fought the good fight; I have finished the race; I have kept the faith.” — 2 Tim. 4:7 (NRSV)

“...Well done, my good and faithful servant...” — Matt. 25:23 (NABRE)

Related Quotes

“For each one of us, there is only one thing necessary: to fulfill our own destiny, according to God's will, to be what God wants us to be.” — Thomas Merton

“Commitment to the will of God—the purpose for which we are designed—offers freedom to become the person we are meant to be.” — Charles E. Hummel

“And shall I pray Thee change Thy will, my Father, Until it be according unto mine? But, no, Lord, no, that never shall be, rather I pray Thee blend my human will with Thine.” — Amy Carmichael

“I am Thy servant to do Thy will, and that will is sweeter to me than position or riches or fame, and I choose it above all things on Earth or in Heaven.” — A.W. Tozer

“All that the beginner in prayer has to do—and you must not forget this, for it is very important—is to labour and be resolute and prepare himself with all possible diligence to bring his will into conformity with the will of God. As I shall say later, you may be quite sure that this comprises the very greatest perfection which can be attained on the spiritual road.” — St. Teresa of Avila

“When we want to know God's will, there are three things which always concur: the inward impulse, the Word of God and the trend of circumstances. Never act until these three things agree.” — F.B. Meyer

“Being a Christian is less about cautiously avoiding sin than about courageously and actively doing God's will.” — Dietrich Bonhoeffer

“Prayer is designed to adjust you to God's will, not to adjust God to your will.” — Henry Blackaby

“The basic purpose of prayer is not to bend God's will to mine, but to mold my will into His.” — Timothy Keller

“The first end I propose in our daily work is to do the will of God; secondly, to do it in the manner he wills it; and thirdly to do it because it is his will.” — St. Elizabeth Ann Seton

“God's will is hard only when it comes up against our stubbornness, then it is as cruel as a ploughshare and as devastating as an earthquake.” — Oswald Chambers

"Perfection is founded entirely on the love of God: ‘Charity is the bond of perfection;’ and perfect love of God means the complete union of our will with God’s." — St. Alphonsus Liguori

“True love of God consists in carrying out God's will. To show God our love in what we do, all our actions, even the least, must spring from our love of God.” — St. Maria Faustina Kowalska

“Obedience to God's will is the secret of spiritual knowledge and insight. It is not willingness to know, but willingness to DO (obey) God's will that brings certainty.” — Eric Liddell

“If life is to have meaning, and if God's will is to be done, all of us have to accept who we are and what we are, give it back to God, and thank Him for the way He made us. What I am is God's gift to me; what I do with it is my gift to Him.” — Warren W. Wiersbe

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